Welcome to r/femdomcommunity! Please check the RULES and the subreddit WIKI before posting. This is an inclusive space for femdoms, themdoms and all those who get butterflies around them to discuss kink, celebrate our victories, share advice and get support.
This subreddit is for people 18 years of age or older.
If you are under 18, you should turn around and seek age-appropriate sex education resources instead. We suggest you take a look at Scarleteen or BishUK.
If you describe, promote, or reference, or in any way, inappropriate contact with persons under 18, your post will be removed and you will be banned.
This is discussion subreddit. Please go to /r/BDSMpersonals, /r/fdpersonals /r/GFDpersonals, /r/gentlefemdomr4r, etc.... if you're looking to advertise for a partner or for professional services. Likewise, do not approach community members with unsolicited sexual content or offers to engage in sexual activities. Honestly, we do not take this behaviour lightly and will ban you permanently for it.
This is a community subreddit. We want it to be a place where people can seek help and support.
If you're sharing a story here it should fall into:
1) An achievement/episode you want to share with the community (not with the purpose of titillating yourself or others)
2) Details that help us help you when you come seeking support or advice.
3) It has an educational purpose or serves to illustrate a discussion.
If you're not sure your story fits, always feel free to message the mod team.
Do not presume other members are interested in sexual comments from you or be involved in a power dynamic with you.
If someone defines themselves as a dom or sub it doesn't mean they are your dom or sub, nor does it mean they even want you to ask. Really.
The way we talk about kink has an effect on others. When discussing kink, take care to not do so in a way that shames other people's kinks, fetishises abuse, reproduces toxic social mores or further harms marginalised groups.
Likewise, take responsibility for the advice you share with the community. If you're offering specialist knowledge on practices that might incur in significant physical or psychological harm, make sure to provide credible references or detail including potential harm.
We get a lot of threads asking for advice, and we've got a lot of folks willing to help. Please help them by including pertinent details such as you and your partners interests, needs and limits.
More advice on getting help can be found here.
This is your community. Make it a welcoming, helpful place where people can feel heard and valued. Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself.
Sexism, racism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, harassment, bullying, xenophobia, kink shaming and victim blaming will not be tolerated.
Be a good subreddit citizen and when posting a question or suggesting a topic, make sure there are not several recent posts on the same subject. If you feel your post is a new variation on that, try linking to the other prior discussions to help continue the conversation.
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