A place for discussions, memes, porn, great art and all things regarding gentle BDSM (femdom, maledom and themdom) and sexuality. Visit gentlebdsm.com to see more of our work! Join our community at Discord.gg/GentleDungeon! Contact us at [email protected] <3
We are a forum on a website that has rules of its own. Please follow those to participate.
We can all have disagreements, but still discuss things like adults. Any type of harassment will be punishable by banning. Please avoid making others uncomfortable. We also do not encourage the use of intimate nicknames like "pet", "mommy" or "slave" to people you don't know well enough.
This subreddit contains mostly 18+ content, so no minors are allowed to participate. If someone is found to be a minor, they will be banned.
Pictures or any sort of sexual content with minors will be removed, and the post author may be banned. About fictional characters: the perceived age range of a given depiction will be considered as more relevant than any lore data, given how random that can be. That is why the perceived appearance of a child counts as an infringement of this rule, no matter the context of their lore. Aged up characters are allowed.
Artists work hard and deserve recognition. If you post something without a source, you are taking authorship for yourself. Authors of art pieces proven to be the result of tracing are also required to provide a source to the original material. Do not repost content when the author asks for their art pieces not to be reposted.
Any or prejudice toward any group of human beings for any reason will be removed and is a bannable offense (including offensive usernames). This includes prejudice based on gender identity, race, sexuality, body type, heritage, nationality, origin, religion, age, mental disability, physical disability, classification as a minority OR non-minority member, or anything else that can be thought up as a way to single out groups for hatred.
This is a subreddit about gentle BDSM and sexuality. Keep it related to the theme. We support the idea that all kinks related to BDSM can be gentle when done a certain way. We define gentleness as a scene mindset, not a specific group of practices within BDSM. The term "sexuality" was also included here due to how slippery the definition of "vanilla" can be.
Respect each other's differences. Your kinks may not be someone else's and vice-versa, so just ignore something if it's not your preferred activity. Any form of kink shaming or gatekeeping will be promptly removed, and the user might be banned. Gatekeeping is defined as taking upon yourself to subjectively decide and enforce what should be allowed or not in this community and context.
Fetishes that include anything that is illegal, including pedophilia and necrophilia, are not welcome here. This rule extends to any sort of discussion involving things that may be illegal in most countries. Due to legislation variables in each country, specific cases may be up to moderator's discretion, but keep in mind Reddit is a platform headquartered in the US, more specifically in San Francisco, CA.
All personals (like "looking for this", "available for that"), be it ads for sex workers or people seeking relationships, will be deleted. There are countless more appropriate places to actively look for a partner. This is a community centered around having healthy discussions with like-minded people. While it is entirely possible for you to find a partner here, it is not allowed to make blatant personal ads.
You need to ask and present the mod team your subreddit/Discord server/project before advertising it here. Unapproved ads will be deleted. Spam accounts will be banned permanently. More than 3 posts per day (1 post per day if they're selfies) done by the same user will be considered spam and thus deleted.
Let's keep this subreddit clean and less cluttered. Please, before you post any content, check the "Best Of" section and also take a quick look to what has been posted as of recently.
Approaching possibly dangerous kink practices with a disregard for evidence-based information can be extremely problematic. That is not to say every claim needs to be backed by peer-reviewed data. We do ask for a careful approach, though, when extraordinary claims are made. To be perfectly clear: pseudoscience in general is not allowed here.
We endorse the following acronyms for how kinks should be approached in this community: RACK = Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. This is important to point out, because "safety" can be misinterpreted as a lack of risks. There are always risks (in some activities more than others), and one should know about them before engaging anything. FRIES = Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic and Specific. This is a comprehensive way to describe what a proper "consent" should look like to be valid.
You need at least 10 karma to post comments in the community. It's quick and easy to get that amount. This is made to hold back spam. Don't send us modmail to restore your comments/posts due to this. If you insist, we will ban you.
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