This is an inclusive space for all dominant people . (See Rule 3)
Dominants are given power, however, with that power comes expectations, pressure, and isolation. They need a private place to set all this aside to get feedback from other dominants, to share, to recharge, and to mentor others. This is a dedicated exclusive space for dominants (and switches acting as dominants) to engage with each other as a community. (We ask our submissive friends to respect the privacy of this space.)
You must be 18 or older to post or comment.
Reddit Rules state, "Content is prohibited if it is sexual or suggestive content involving minors".
Reddit Rules state, "Content is prohibited if it is sexual or suggestive content involving minors".
If you post about anyone under 18 in a sexual way, we will delete the post and you risk a ban.
Dominants emerge in every community and every person deserves the right to engage without dealing with prejudice relating to their religion, race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, or physical disability.
Avoid misgendering people once they have clarified their pronouns.
We do not permit posts or comments which condone or imply a lack of consent from all parties involved.
To be clear consensual-nonconsent (CNC) is expressly permitted but best practice is to ensure that you make affirmation of consent clear when you discuss this topic. (A tag with "CNC" is sufficient.)
Every person deserves the right to have constructive conversation free of romantic or sexual overtures. There are excellent places on reddit where personal ads and other similar content is expressly permitted.
This is not a place to sell your product or service.
Our intention is to provide a healthy and engaging space for dominants. We ask that submissives respect the privacy of this space as a group run for dominants. Switches are welcome if they are engaging in conversation as a dominant.
Mods will remove posts written by submissives but we encourage you to participate in r/subsanctuary or other BDSM communities and wish you the best.
Best practice is to treat the other dominants here with the same respect you would give a friendly professional colleague.
The mods may remove posts that are inflammatory, insulting, or lacking in courtesy.
We are not a porn or erotica subreddit. Specifically, erotic content should be framed by the poster such that it could start a meaningful conversation for dominants.
"Yeah, that's hot!" is not a meaningful conversation.
There are lots of great places for erotic content on reddit but this is a place where dominants speak to each other constructively. The mods may remove erotic content that does not foster useful conversation.
Can you write an extended explicit testimonial about your experiences?
Can you share your personal story with the sole purpose of seeking validation?
Yes! We encourage this kind of sharing provided it is clearly related to BDSM.
We are talking about BDSM (and often sex) in a friendly kink-positive space.
Talking through technique in explicit detail may be very helpful for other dominants. If you have skills and experience to share, we want to create a space where you can communicate as freely as possible.
Mods may take action to prevent kink-shaming.
If the moderators find a post which is inappropriate for this subreddit, we reserve the right to take corrective action based on our best judgment.
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