Where dirty folks can come to find their special someone to use them "without consent", with consent.
Consent is an ongoing, mutual, collaborative agreement to engage in a sex act.
Consent cannot be transferred, and other individuals may not act as intermediaries or go-betweens, i.e. communicating or transferring consent from another person.
There must always be one or more ways for consent to be immediately withdrawn.
Nonconsensual sex acts are against our rules and are morally and legally considered rape.
Consent must be agreed on via real-time communication between the individuals involved.
The best way to establish consent is via public, in-person meetup before the scene.
If a public, in-person meetup is not possible, establishing consent via video call is acceptable.
Attackers must be certain, without any doubt, that the person they are engaging with consents to all CNC activities.
Targeting a non-consenting person is rape, and you are responsible if you attack a non-consenting person.
r/CNC_connect defines CNC Activities as: consensual simulated sexual assault. For our definition of consent, see rule 1.
Posts looking for interactions that do not involve CNC will be removed.
For example, ads for rough sex and kinky play that do not involve “simulated sexual assault” are not allowed and will be removed.
Do not post if you are under 18
Do not post looking for someone under 18.
Do not imply that you are under 18
Do not imply you would be open to interaction with someone under 18, for example using phrases like "young boy," "young girl," or "young teen."
If someone under 18 contacts you for CNC interaction, report that person to the moderators and they will be banned.
A Safe Word is a codeword used to communicate the withdrawal of consent during CNC activities, and must be established prior to CNC.
Nonverbal safe signals may also be added.
Engaging in CNC without a Safe Word is not allowed.
Posts that state or imply that a Safe Word will not be used will be removed and the poster may be banned.
When a Safe Word is used, the CNC activity must immediately end, and the well-being must be assessed.
Only resume if consent is reaffirmed by both parties.
r/CNC_Connect requires a standard title format. Posts that do not follow this format will be auto-rejected by our bot. The correct post format is:
age [R4R] #location - brief title
Example: 45 [M4F] #Atlanta - Brutal automoderator seeks helpless victim
Posts about situations where consent is absent or dubious are banned. Examples include (but are not limited to): * Substance/Intoxicant play * Sleep Play/Somnophilia * Coordinating CNC for another individual * Posts seeking no limits situations * Identifying the victim based on location, clothing, photograph, or any method other than real-time, in-person or video establishment of consent * Involving more than one victim * Discussion of “rape baiting” * Cuckold/Cuckquean scenes
This subreddit does not allow the exchange of sexual activities for money, goods, services, travel, gifts, housing, or anything of value. If you primarily use your Reddit account to buy or sell adult content or services, please consider posting from an alternate account to avoid the appearance that CNC activities will involve payment or other prohibited exchange.
Do not post anyone's personal information. This includes, but is not limited to: * Name * Address * Email * Phone number * Social Media Usernames * Chat Accounts * Photos with uniquely identifiable features (face/tattoos)
For your safety, we recommend that you only post from accounts that are not tied to any of the above information
You may include a neck-down photo of yourself when you post.
With their consent, you may include the reddit username of your CNC partner in success posts.
The sole purpose of this subreddit is finding in-person partners for CNC encounters. The following post types are off-topic and will be removed: * Posts seeking long-term relationships * Posts seeking online interactions * Posts offering to travel for CNC activities * Discussion posts
As a popular adult subreddit, we must take active measures to eliminate spam and maintain the quality of the subreddit: * Only one post is allowed per 7 days * Only post from one account within a 7-day period * Posts should be descriptive and must be at least 200 characters * Posts and comments may not include social media or chat accounts, as these can be a privacy risk and are often associated with spam accounts * Do not copy others’ posts * All posts must be in English
Success stories are allowed if: * You met your partner on this subreddit * Subreddit rules were followed before, during, and after the scene * Posted from the author’s point-of-view (POV); attackers can’t post the victim’s POV and vice versa * It includes a factual and descriptive account of what made the encounter safe and successful * It avoids hyperbole * Self-promotion is omitted; success posts are to inform others, not to promote yourself * Each success post may only be posted here once
r/CNCConnect encourages the use of Safety Buddies. A Safety Buddy is an individual who you share your plans with, update your status with, and check in with after the scene. A Safety Buddy should be able to retrieve you during or after a scene if needed, and should have instructions on contacting authorities if you miss a check-in. If you do not already have a Safety Buddy, you may post a Safety Buddy Request to r/CNCConnect.
This subreddit uses u/automoderator and u/floodassistant bots to automate our moderation tasks and to provide feedback and guidance to our users. You are expected to carefully read each bot comment that appears on your posts. If you send a message to the moderators with a question that has already been answered by u/automoderator, your message will likely be ignored.
If you attempt to bypass our word triggers, your post will be removed and you may be banned.
We rely on our users to identify and report rule violations and unsafe situations. Please report questionable behavior even does not violate a specific rule.
Reports should only be made using the “Report” feature or by sending a message to modmail: www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/CNC_Connect
Please include a detailed description with your report. Screenshots should be uploaded to www.imgur.com
Do not send moderation messages directly to our moderators via chat or Reddit Message
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