Community for active, former, and aspiring sex workers and those who love them. A place to seek advice, vent, or have discussions.
This is NOT an advertising sub and will be met with a one-strike ban. Please read the rules.
Read the How to Find a safe Provider Guide = https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/hzivvb/howtofindasafe_provider/ If you still have a question, mention in your post that you already read the above guide and couldn't find an answer there.
Directly soliciting any member will result in a ban.
Absolutely no advertising or soliciting is allowed in this community and carries a one-strike ban policy.
This includes: -photos -links -handles -reviews of sex workers -profile review requests -any post that is meant to drive traffic to your profile on Reddit or a 3rd party site
And we're not interested in the excuse that "I didn't know I couldn't do that," which is a common message we get in our modmail after we ban someone for this. Sorry, you should have read these rules.
This includes names (real or otherwise), social media handles or links, phone numbers, work places, etc. All identifying information must be blurred. This is a one strike you’re out policy. https://www.reddithelp.com/en/categories/rules-reporting/account-and-community-restrictions/posting-someones-private-or-personal
Please show an initiative that you’ve researched how-to get started as a sex worker. Both google and this forum is full of information. eg https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/kkge70/howtogetstartedasasexworkerfaq/ . You may ask a specific question as a new sex worker, but how you ask the question will need to show that you’ve done your own research.
This includes BBBJ, bareback full service & STIs. There is ample medical advice available on the internet from legitimate medical sources regarding STIs and the risks associated with unprotected sex as well as bbbj. Please use the medical resources available or consult your doctor, not strangers on reddit. Be smart! It’s your health.
Do not post or request to post a survey or research project having to do with your academic thesis or wanting to get market research information. And please do not recruit members for interviews or podcasts on this page.
Search the subreddit before you post. If the topic of your post has been discussed here many times before and there's nothing in your post to say you've already searched the subreddit for posts on this topic and you haven't made any attempt to bring anything new to the discussion, your post may be locked or removed
This is not a platform for racism of any kind. Discrimination against some prospective clients based on prejudices regarding their race is racism by definition. Nobody can, or should, be policing a sex worker's right to choose their clients as they see fit. However, posts and comments about your own racism, or the racism of others, add nothing to the subreddit and are actually harmful. They will be removed.
No posts or comments discussing screening, blacklists etc. We don't want dangerous clients to have access to information they could use to try to circumvent our security. Discuss these topics by private message only with someone you are sure is a sexworker.
Please read our How to Find a Safe Provider guide before posting: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/hzivvb/howtofindasafe_provider/
To avoid common scams, see r/scams: https://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/wiki/index/automoderator/
Also, no "NEVER SEND DEPOSITS/SCREENING!" posts or comments from hobbyists. There's nothing wrong with screening or deposits. Clients just need to do some due diligence to make sure they're contacting a genuine provider.
As per the About = This is a community for active, former, and aspiring sex workers and those who love them. A place to seek advice, vent, or have discussions. Do not come here and make mean or rude comments about sex workers in general or a sex worker specifically.
Homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, misogyny, ableism, etc. also fall under content that is unwelcome in this community.
No telling us your fairy tales about what happened during a session. Especially if the fairy tale involves how a provider allegedly let you stay longer - Or gave their personal information/wanted to see you off the clock/said they won’t charge you/wanted a relationship/stayed overnight/wanted you to move in with them/offered you services they don't usually offer eg bareback/or WHATEVER. These stories always seem suspiciously fictional, are highly repetitive and ultimately pointless.
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