Facilitating adult conversations, one orangered envelope/chat bubble at a time.
Posts must start with a recognized Gender-seeking tag in the title in the [A4B] format. Recognized tags are M (Male), F (Female), TM (Transmasculine), TF (Transfeminine), NB (Non-Binary). A (Anyone) is recognized ONLY for the second, searching half of the tag.
Please note: Moderators WILL NOT police use of tags beyond automated requirements. See our policy on gender verification here.
Posts may not contain images of any sort, or link to content primarily for the purpose of displaying images (e.g. "look at /r/ imagesubreddit for examples", "check my profile for pics").
Bullying, harassment, shaming, calling out, hate speech, kink-shaming, sexualizing real violence, or otherwise behaving like a jerk in posts or comments will not be tolerated.
As an adult community focused on NSFW interactions, users must be at least 18 to post on /r/DirtyPenPersonals. Any posters stating anywhere on Reddit that they are under 18 will be immediately and permanently banned.
Any discussions of real incest, rape, bestiality, or ageplay are forbidden.
Do not discuss specific individuals not involved in the exchange (e.g. spouses, family, friends, or public figures), unless those individuals are involved in the production of publicly-available pornography.
All interactions on /r/DirtyPenPersonals are free. Users found to be attempting to sell content through /r/DirtyPenPersonals, engage in Financial Domination, or otherwise are advertising paid services will be immediately banned.
While you are perfectly welcome to arrange interactions off-site with a partner you've connected with, whether through discord, kik, email, etc, you may not provide 3rd party contact info in posts or comments, nor are you allowed to require interactions take place off-site in posts.
Posts should be focused on trading written messages with a single partner. Exchanges not focused on writing with and getting to know a partner (image exchanges; group servers; strictly fantasy-based chats or roleplaying; JOI or other instructions) are not appropriate for /r/DirtyPenPersonals.
Folks looking for BDSM-related interactions may be better served by /r/BDSMPersonals
Posts must be at least 175 words, and should offer
Point two can be addressed by telling us about yourself, some of your initial thoughts on the subject, a unique perspective you have on the subject, etc.
As many pieces of popular media feature characters who are underage, and determining which characters are above the age of consent and which are not is incredibly time-consuming and error prone, we do not allow posts which primarily focus on discussion of fictional characters.
Posts mentioning existing characters, even if not the primary focus, may be removed at moderator discretion.
Don't spam the subreddit. It you have a post on the first page of /new or /hot, you probably don't need to post again just yet.
As the subreddit grows and culture develops, we'll better define these limits in a way that that makes sense for the subreddit.
Posts should be your own original writing. It's fine to take structural or topical inspiration from others, but you should phrase things in your own words. You do yourself and potential partners a disservice by stealing someone else's writing wholesale, or using LLM's like ChatGPT to write your posts for you.
Recycling posts between multiple active accounts you control is a violation of this rule.
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